To get a successful answer from my relationship readings, it is good to know that I can provide you an empathic reading very quickly, usually within five minutes, if you want their feelings in general about you, without knowing their psychological motivations.
But please do allow for at least ten to twenty minutes for a thorough understanding of what your Tarot cards are stating if you want an answer to a situation. Sometimes I can get the answer very quickly, but it may take time for you, as the new client, to understand what I am going to have to explain to you, because I get so much detail.
I pull out the entire deck without a coherent spread and I receive a tremendous amount of information. So, to expect a yes or a no in less time for a card reading is not usually advisable, especially when you have some very deep questions that even in life could not be resolved with a simple yes or no.
The true Tarot is symbolism; it speaks no other language and offers no other signs ~ Arthur E. Waite
Sometimes I can coax them into giving me more clues or insight during your reading, in which case I have to ask you to please write the information down, word by word, because even the wording will make sense in time.
I do find my cards are not emotionally sensitive or eloquent. It almost may feels like I am speaking to an official from a different country or time, so when I translate I simply read the ‘code’ or answer to you.
Once you have had a reading, try not to look at it for a few days or weeks and let it develop and hopefully you have written down what I have said to you word by word. Please respect that the cards cannot provide for you an answer in an obvious, human manner. It is up to us to understand they don’t need to ‘be nice’ or ‘specific’, or stay within your budget. I find it unfortunate these days that a seeker will call a number of readers all at once, without allowing for the readings to unfold, thus not remembering outcomes and trying to coax readers into ‘forcing an outcome’ during a desperate moment.
Gone are the days when we had only one soothsayer. Now online readers are expected to provide a quick and positive answer as the client naturally wishes to hear better news. Whereas before we would have had one dazzling and awe inspiring comment from the Wise Man, Medicine Man or Shaman, and we would have taken the answer to heart, and walked away with the strength of faith. These days it’s about comparative readings, which further can confuse you as a client. It’s alright to get a few, but too many all at one time will not allow you to hear the answers, or wait for them to unravel.
When you relinquish the desire to control your future, you can have more happiness ~ Nicole Kidman
For example another question could be answered like this:
“Will X and I have a relationship?”
Cards: “There will be a friendship that will be suddenly suspended”
For example the cards drawn could be:
Two of Cups + Eight of Wands + Hanged Man or Ace of Wands Reversed
Ten of Cups + Death Reversed + Hanged Man Reversed
If on occasion I do get the exact same answer in each reading I will get a different combination of cards every time, so the content of the message will never be the same.
Frustratingly blunt and incomplete as this may sound, the answer may be in this case: “You will not maintain a relationship”. Now please note that the client is asking if they will have a relationship and notice the cards will simply state what the outcome will be, almost ignoring your question! As you can see it’s not affirmative or negative it simply states an event, even if you do not see it now, this is how the situation will be appear in a few months or years from now.
Also, when you ask a question: “Will we have a long term relationship” and the cards say no, occasionally a client will comment: “But we are in a relationship now, you were wrong.” Oftentimes though, just months later, they realize it was not actually long term, it just seemed that way at the time.
Time is a brisk wind, for each hour it brings something new… but who can understand and measure its sharp breath, its mystery and its design? ~ Paracelsus
Imagine in a way that the Tarot is like a computer and it only provides data and does not understand the value of the data or the emotional impact of what it is telling you. It simply states what is.
For this reason I use the cards to verify and support any intuition I have, or an empathic reading I do, because they provide me details and events you or I may not be able to verify at this point, but that will support the reason for its unfolding.
In other words, the Tarot can pick out details that are so removed from my experience or expectations (as life does have unexpected twists and turns) that all I can recommend is to write the information down and wait for the events to unfold in due time.
Sometimes I get immediate timing, which is why I advertize the present situation. Think of me as a present and past event analyst and if we work together over time, you will also get a clear picture regarding the future outcome and the reasons for this outcome.
The cards and other divination tools will update everything minute by minute to me. I do not have control over this ‘feed’. So a reading can absolutely alter from day to day, as the events update and change, even if the outcome or blueprint remains the same. Remember, no reading day to day will maintain this consistency as life in itself cannot, but the outcome may. They offer advice and clarity on the now which is perpetuating itself into an outcome.
Also bear in mind, when you are upset your mind is not clear. I will get your questions as you are speaking to me, so occasionally I have to ask for brief meditation during our card reading, or as I recommend, a deep breath and no expectations will get you a better answer, instead of just a mirror of your fears. It is different in my empathic readings and I will go into that later.
There are always other factors that will explain different angles of perception on a momentary basis, and thus you will almost assuredly never get a consistent reading. It is mathematically impossible for the cards to fall the same way each time I draw them. I do believe there is a science to the way this information expresses itself. This not to say that this is a scientific phenomenon, but more precisely there is a rational method of categorizing, analyzing and recording the information for future reference. In other words, it is as if I am reading excerpts of your ‘life book’ to you, and I cannot control the contents.
I would recommend writing Tarot readings down, as one can often feel anxious or expectant during a reading and it’s to vital to record the way things are communicated, sentence by sentence, word by word.
To read Part I of this article go to: Conversations with Cards: Obtaining Outcomes >>
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