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Coming To Terms With Death… Our Greatest Ally!

click for a free psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comBehind our pretentious mask lurks the realization that we have one authentic desire: to find something… anything that really matters. True desire is a funny thing. If it’s genuine, it must manifest.

According to one ancient esoteric law, manifestation occurs when we realize we don’t want or need the object of our desire anymore. In other words, when we’re no longer separated from ourselves by conflict, we can and do get anything we want.

What prevents us from finding and activating this unity within? The fear of death. Most often times, mortals live in deep conflict and continue to do so for a very long time. Inconsistency is another word that better describes the obvious division existing within us. As it is written in James 1:8 a “double-minded man is unstable in all his ways.”

We want to live so badly, but we know for certain that we are going to die. It’s a contradiction in terms we never really get over.

Contradiction forms itself in the midst of insincerity. The obvious apprehension associated with the idea of death produces an acute inability to communicate honestly and effectively. At our base lurks a finite, uncapped agony. Antagonistic behavior, whether managed, maintained and controlled appropriately, reveals itself in a myriad of deflated obvious ways.

It’s certainly no accident that human beings resent others profusely, while at the same time smile through their elephant tusks of helpfulness, obligingly. We want someone to help us out of our impending dire situation of an inevitable end, but no one is there.

Death is nothing, but to live defeated and inglorious is to die daily ~ Napoleon Bonaparte

We envision human beings, who are otherwise intelligent, curious, eager, invigorated, interesting, lively, spontaneous, fun-loving creatures, could find a way to bridge the ‘revolving gap of scrutiny’ of endless confusion, but to no avail.

Although painfully shy, inhibited, insecure and afraid, humans do whatever is in their power to offset these unnatural characteristics by ‘putting on their Sunday Best,’ exaggerating, and acting so superficially nice, when in the company of those they want to impress, but at home turn into vicious tyrannical beasts, because of this same underlying anxiety.

We don’t want our lives, or the lives of those we love, to end. But, end it must… without our approval, consent or affirmation. Life is merciful in one respect. Yet, in another, terribly disconcerting. Sad but true: the ending does not justify the means!

For in the end, and somewhere in between, we all must eventually face the bleak reality of what we are gonna do about the non-negotiable fact that we’re gonna die?

Human beings live as if they’re immortal, which in fact we are, but not mindfully experienced on the day-to-day existence of building relationships, having babies, formulating careers, depicting and applying our chosen religious views, and settling for a designated path. It feels cruel and unjust to do all we possibly can, and then it ends… just like that!

Death must be embraced, encountered and emancipated! Sooner or later, we all come to terms with our obvious mortality, and how pleased or displeased we are with the time we have used while strolling around planet Earth. Gossip, backbiting, erroneous envying, competing, comparing, cheating, lying, and not forgiving, seem to all take a back seat to the idea of dying.

I would rather die a meaningful death than to live a meaningless life ~ Corazon Aquino

Some people say it takes patience to live a fully integrated life with no regrets. I say it takes incorporating pure, raw, unadulterated pleasure! Human beings are intuitively pleasure-seeking creatures. We are divinely imbued with bliss at our deepest core – in, for and of pleasure.

Sacred sensual pleasure evokes authenticity! No time for foolish acts of depravity in the consciousness of ignorant prejudice or demoralizing scenes of hating, blaming or accusing our fellow man.

When we are so immeasurably content doing what it is we are passionate about, we have nothing but warm compassionately instilled thoughts for others. Instead of filling ourselves with overburdened worries, concerns, obligations, and responsibilities, bursting at the seams, in tension, disappointment and depression, why not let go of the excessive striving and take hold of emancipating circular living?

We were not created to live in a lulled world of self-pity, self-concern, and self-involvement regarding how much we are accumulating, and how educated we are, and in what position of status does our reputation rank, according to the feeble standards of the world. What does it matter? We are going to die anyway, remember?

We were created to gyrate, pulsate, and vibrate to the sound of our primal, instinctive rhythm of the soul. We are incapable of addressing our deepest sacred sexual artistic needs and desires when so hung up on the ideas of financial success, physical fitness, beauty, authoritative control, and worldly power and position.

Though we go through the waxed imitative motions each day, underneath our pretentious facade wreaks a hungry monster of gnarling discontent. We travel in and out of conversations, smiling, part-time, complaining most times, and then screaming silently from our gut all the time.

It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live ~ Marcus Aurelius

We will have to deal with the intense soul-awakening journey completely alone, in order to discover the liberating secret that death hides. It’s not something we can continue to push under the rug of complacency.

Death is our greatest ally! He is our friend and most passionate lover of our soul’s intent. No other compensation will offer such rewarded solace as the heart-to-heart conversation with our impending death. We were born to learn how to die – that’s actuality in the blizzard-blanketed wintertime. Beautiful and serene.

Here’s the esoteric psychological cosmic deal: we are carrying a marvelous secret wrapped in the whiter than snow linen cloth of death. It is a secret so profound, when exposed, unspoiled welcomed. Incalculable, indescribable transformation takes place in the twinkling of an eye.

This radical transformation occurs in spite of us and our attempted interference to postpone its certainty. Nothing happens by accident. Every single event that transpires in our life happens for a Divine Reason and that sacred reason is attached to our specific demise. We will get it done. We will not be cut short or inhibited in our specific journey.

We don’t know the reason for life, nor are we aware of any truth behind the reason for death. But what we can know is that Death knows all. Death is designed to enter so naturally and conveniently, whether expected or not. We will be utterly surprised by the simplicity of the accessed change of our form.

A one-time designated appointment with the infamous taskmaster of life bids us to live to the fullest in all of our endeavors. He will one day arrive to take us away from this entirely infused splendor, but rest assured, not a moment too soon. No death occurs before its exact and precise time. It’s impossible.

 No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new ~ Steve Jobs

Death can be our best friend if we allow his company to aid us in our personal quests. He demands we get honest, real while we sacredly sensually artistically pump every ounce of life into our veins throughout our otherwise mundane activities.

The irresolute truth of the divine breath flowing effortlessly through our warm body stands while the rest of unresolved paranoia falls away. Bottom line: do whatever it is that makes your heart pump stronger. Enthusiastic vitality is ours for the executing.

Death is the ultimate celebration of a life thoroughly, courageously, passionately, artistically, sexually lived! If we ignore the reality of the innate impetus to connect with others on the same path, we will miss out on a tremendously vital self-orgasmic secret.

By making friends with Death, we won’t have to continue with self-defeating feelings of guilt, remorse, inferiority and blame. No longer afraid, because we don’t know how or what to do with the nebulous unworthy and shameful feelings we’ve accumulated throughout the years. Death will teach us to let go permanently and live with utter passion effectively.

How long can we persuade ourselves and others that we’re not a phony? That we have it all together? That we’re not driven by a need to impress? That we can and do act spontaneously, without expressing the superfluous need to apologize, defend, and excuse our various words and actions?

We can try to avoid Death, and continue to hide from that ever present need to find our innate gifts and express them, but we will be continually miserable… and then we will die.

About The Author: Paula

Paula's innate metaphysical abilities, artistic talents, and entrepreneurial acumen have mixed wonderfully together to create a social media sensation, one who enjoys great popularity on LinkedIn, Instragram, Facebook, and YouTube. She dispenses not only accurate and intuitive divine wisdom but has artistic offerings that include vibrational soul paintings displayed on the internet, and she is a gifted singer and music producer as well. Her calling as a cosmic therapist led her to be the founder of MODE (Masters of Divine Essence) Cosmic Therapy Research Center, where she's published numerous books, songs and plays, and has held many workshops and seminars throughout the Southeast. She even produced her own program, The Mode of Cosmic Therapy Interactive Television Show that aired on WRTN, in Raleigh, NC, for ten years. Paula is also an avid astrologer who interprets the stars and predicts your chart energies at work. If you'd like a detailed glimpse at your own cosmic blueprint, or you have burning questions that require clear answers, Paula will employ all the tools and talents at her disposal for a reading that will dazzle and transform your life. You can find Paula at

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