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The Importance Of Setting Boundaries

click here now for a free psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comI think my life-long lesson is boundaries and setting them. When I first started my journey in recovery, I had no clue what boundaries were. I think I am still learning them as I encounter situations, both spiritual and otherwise.

What is a boundary?  A boundary is a self-imposed limit on behaviors determining how you are to be treated, what type of behavior you will or will not tolerate, and how you will react when you feel those boundaries have been violated.

One example of a personal boundary is someone yelling at you.  You tell the person yelling at you, not to yell at you, otherwise you will walk up and leave the room. Then you get up and walk away from the situation if their behavior persists.

Another example is inappropriate tardiness. An individual tells you they will be at a place at a certain time. You are there on time, but the other person is not. You wait and wait. Then after several minutes, you leave. If the person shows up late without letting you know, they are out of luck. The person shows you who they are when they do not show up on time. Your time is precious and it shows a level of disrespect.

Boundaries are necessary for spiritual settings too. I remember when first opening up my psychic abilities, spirits would come to visit me at the most inappropriate times! I would be sleeping in bed and suddenly open my eyes feeling something was staring at me. Since then I have set boundaries with my spirit guides and angels, instructing them spirits were not allowed to bother me when I sleep. Another boundary I had to place is no spirits were to contact me if they were not of the Light.

Boundaries are a part of self-care. They are healthy, normal, and necessary ~ Doreen Virtue

A question I am often asked is how to protect an individual’s personal space. This will also fall under a boundary, as some spirits that are not of the Light, like to pay unwelcome visits. Sometimes these unwanted spirits, who may be earthbound (those who have not gone to the Light) or lower energy spirits, like to hang out and stay. With these types of situations, you can use sage smudging to clean them out. These types of spirits hate sage. If you don’t want to use sage to smudge, as the smell doesn’t go well with you, you can use liquid sage. It smells delightful!  You can always use liquid sage in the workplace if a pesky, negative co-worker comes into your work area.

A personal boundary I do take seriously is not allowing certain energies into my energy field. Sometimes a potential client and I do not match up energetically. And my no, means no.  Unfortunately, there are some individuals who hope I will change my mind. I can assure you, I stand my ground.

Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves even when we risk disappointing others ~ Brené Brown

How do you enforce boundaries? No is a complete word and sentence. When someone violates a boundary, make sure you enforce it. There are times when I have had to re-enforce boundaries. Say what you mean, mean what you say, but don’t be mean as you say it.

Once you practice setting boundaries, it becomes easier and easier…spiritual and otherwise. You are the only one who can set and enforce boundaries. It is up to you. It is also a form of self-love. Remember, you are the one who will have to live with the consequences of neglecting your boundaries – not the other person.

About The Author: Angelic Amy

Amy's two near death experiences (NDE's) pushed her natal psychic abilities into overdrive and her story is featured in a famous psychic medium's new book! She's experienced a rich life full of more ups and downs than most encounter in a lifetime, which has only helped her connect to her clients on a deeper level. Tapping into her clairvoyant, clairaudient and Mediumship abilities, Amy is a prominent radio show host, has appeared on other radio shows, and is a popular Tarot reader at Psychic Fairs and parties. This native New Yorker is an experienced energy healer, a Reiki Master, and channels gentle Angelic energies through an Integrated Energy Therapy Technique. It's an honor for Amy to help you in your time of need. If that time is now, you can find this gifted psychic at

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