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Manifesting Love

click here for a free psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comHe loves me, he loves me not. Do you find yourself daydreaming about love? Imagining your next partner, what they will look like and when they are going to arrive in your life? Maybe you’re wondering if the person that you are interested in is also into you? Or perhaps you’re simply contemplating your current relationship?

Whatever your current relationship status, I am sure that thoughts of romantic love creep into your mind quite often. So, given that we manifest not only with our actions, but even more so with our thoughts, take heed! Manifesting real, meaningful love isn’t as hard as you may think.

Over the years, experience has taught me that next to money, manifesting love is at the top of the list for most people. We all want a relationship where we feel desired, respected and appreciated. And I just told you that it’s not really that hard to manifest. So why does it seem so hard to come by?

Sadly, while many will proclaim they want that type of relationship, a good portion of people actually struggle with feeling that they truly deserve it. Others may believe they deserve it, but they don’t know what they’re doing wrong, or why it hasn’t shown up yet.

Envision the future you desire. Create the life of your dreams. See it, feel it, believe it ~ Jack Canfield

I teach manifesting techniques regularly to my private business clients. I feel that a loving, fulfilling relationship should be available to everyone, and not just a few lucky people. So, if you’re struggling, let me try and help you get to the bottom of the problem.

Since the same rules of surrounding manifesting apply in all situations, no matter what the desired subject or outcome is, I’ll give you the four simple steps I’ve used hundreds of times to manifest things into my life. And let me ease your mind; they don’t work just for me. These easy, yet powerful steps have worked for many of my personal clients.

Step 1 – Decision

You need to decide, and I mean clearly decide what type of relationship you want. Who do you want your lover or partner to be? I don’t specifically mean their name, but who are they as a person? How will they treat you? How much attraction will you feel? Do you share religious and or political views? Are finances and job status important? What about pets? Children?

You can’t decide you want “just a boyfriend” or “just a girlfriend”.  That could be disastrous! Think about it. You don’t go to a restaurant, and order “just a salad” and expect an overflowing Cobb salad to appear. Because, hey, a great salad is way more than just greens – it includes eggs, bacon, cheese, and so on. If you order “just a salad” you might just get iceberg lettuce on a plate.

When working on this step take your time. Write it out. Read it. Re-read it a dozen times. Then maybe re-work it.

Claim your truth, feel the love, believe you can create whatever you want, and you will be on your way to manifesting the life and the love you really want ~ Shelly Bullard

Step 2 – Declaration

Yes, declare it. Say it. Say it out loud. Write it in your journal. Use a dry erase marker to put it on your bathroom mirror. As you declare it, so it is set into motion to appear.

Now, here’s a thing to pay attention to. As you’ve decided what you want and are getting ready to declare it, do it all in the positive sense. Your words are very powerful and the Universe does not discriminate between ‘good’ and ‘bad’ phrases. Everything is viewed as a positive. If you use the words “won’t cheat on me”, be forewarned – the word “won’t” will get ‘wiped’ from the equation, leaving you with the phrase “cheat on me.”

So, switch it to a positive phrase, such as “my partner is honest and faithful.” The trick I always teach my clients is to say a phrase out loud and see how it ‘feels’ emotionally, as it comes out of your mouth. If it feels wrong, change it.

Step 3 – Ownership

To own it, you need to feel it, to believe it. It’s yours. That dream partner is your partner! Even if they haven’t identified themselves yet, they do exist and they are your partner! Sit in meditation and notice how it feels now that you have that relationship. Yes, put it in the present tense, as if it’s already arrived.

When you are talking about manifesting a loving partner, this step can sometimes cause people to pause. I’ve had people tell me they’ve not ever experienced the type of relationship they are trying to manifest, so how can they “own it” if they’ve never “felt it” before. A simple mind trick is to think of people and relationships that already have those characteristics that your dream partner has. Are they kind? Who in your life is very kind? Sit and feel that emotion, that relationship, and declare this same feeling is felt for your partner. Are they compassionate? Who in your life already displays compassion to you? Is your dream partner financially secure and generous with their money? Who in your life already has these traits? The key is to identify the feelings you have surrounding those personality traits, and wrap them into one person.

Remember, you do deserve this person in your life. You do deserve to feel this level of love.

When you have clarity and commit to manifesting your heart’s desire, you will be drawn to those who light you up on every level…and they will be drawn to you ~ Annette Vaillancourt

Step 4 – Gratitude

You need to be in a vibrational state of gratitude to manifest. Keeping yourself on that positive energy vibration of giving thanks for your amazing future love is key. Just as you say thank you in anticipation after you’ve placed your order in a restaurant (yes, well before your meal arrives you have typically already thanked the waitress) the same principle applies here. Give thanks in anticipation. After all, time is irrelevant. Giving thanks shows the Universe you have faith what you’ve asked for is coming.

Apart from these 4 steps, there are a few more things to consider. Time, for example, is one of the things that slips people up. Time is a funny thing. It can be a very fluid, or concrete piece of the equation. While we may want something or someone right now, it may take the Universe a little time to adjust the paths of yourself and that certain person (or thing) so that they eventually converge. Please be patient.

When you are manifesting something that involves another person, both people must be on the same page and that sometimes requires more time. I can’t stress it enough. Make sure to be really clear with what is important to you in the relationship and the feelings that surround that. If you absolutely cannot deal with someone who is hypocritical, or someone who can’t seem to hold a job down, or who is extremely cautious in all areas of their life, or who wants a big family (when you don’t want children), then address that when manifesting.

You don’t want to realize once the ‘perfect person’ arrives, that there is actually a huge character flaw or difference in life goals (in your opinion) that you overlooked. Just keep what’s really, really important to you at the forefront. With manifesting, you’ll most always get just what you asked for.

About The Author: Angie

Angie is an accomplished Medium, Intuitive and Empath, speaking with Angels, Spirit Guides and those who've crossed over. She's situated in the New England area, and has been providing highly accurate readings for her clients for over twenty-five years, and is sought after for psychic parties and dinners. What makes her particularly fascinating is her unique talent with Art Mediumship, in which she combines drawings and messages. She's trained with many mentors locally and internationally, and has connected with exactly the right teachers at just the right time. Angie is also a teacher, offering Spiritual Gift and Mediumship Development classes, and she is Certified in Akashic Records and Pranic Healing. If you'd like to be introduced to your best spiritual self, while receiving detailed answers from a gifted and compassionate Card Reader and Medium, you can find Angie at

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