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Inviting Others To Open Up More

click here for a free psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comThere are times in life we come across people who are very closed off, or emotionally shut down. I’m sure you can think of someone in your life whom you would like to become closer with, or just to have a more open communication with them. Fortunately, there are ways to use your own energy in order to help others around you open up more.

Each of us has our own energy field, also known as the aura. This energy is shared with others as we move through life, and it affects those around you, whether or not there is a conscious awareness of it, or not. And certain energy we put out into the universe can actually push people away, when really we desire to be closer to them.

Have you noticed someone in your own life pulling away for no reason, or having a hard time expressing their feelings to you? Closed-off energy and communication can kill any relationship quickly, be it romantic relationships, friendships or family interactions. It is important to have open and positive energy, in order to attract similar energy in your relationships.

A person who is very closed-off with their feelings, or has a ‘wall up,’ will struggle to break out of that cycle without another person’s energy pulling it out of them. The stronger the connection you share with a person, the more sensitive they will be to your energy, and vice versa.

If you are finding there is a person in your life that is more shut down than you would like them to be, try being more open and vulnerable with this person. It may be uncomfortable at first, but if you continue to be open and share of yourself without any pressure, the other person will start to feed off your energy and eventually begin to reciprocate your openness.

In keeping them out, you keep the risk of disappointment and pain out. But in keeping them out, you keep the chance of acceptance and love out, too. In the end, you really have to decide if the risk or the chance is more important to you and act accordingly ~ Doe Zantamata

When we encounter people who are closed off, it is sometimes natural to shut down as well, but do not do this, as it important to break out of that cycle. If two people are very connected, their energies will end up balancing each other out in the long run. It is just a matter of working on things and finding the right balance.

Sometimes our relationships get stuck in an unhealthy cycle of closing off to one another. By practicing and being aware of your own open energy, you can start to have a immense impact on others’ energies if they are strongly connected to you. It is important that the connection is strong though, in order to have a significant impact on another person. If the connection is not strong, and there is not a lot of energy shared between you two, your actions and behaviors will have less of an effect on that person.

Having insight and understanding of your own energy can help you take control of your own relationships around you. If there is a relationship in your life you are working on, please take some time working on yourself being open and positive!

About The Author: Summer

Summer resides on the East Coast and is a skilled Energy Worker, Tarot Reader and Counselor with a Master's Degree in Psychology. Over the last ten years, her compassionate approach has empowered many clients to overcome difficult life situations. Her clear Intuitive answers, coupled with her counseling credentials, make her the ideal practitioner that her clients return to for advice. She specializes in the areas of love, career and relationships, and clients testify on how accurate her predicted timelines have been. Many also report on relationships that have been restored, thanks to her sage advice. If you'd like to relieve anxiety, find answers and know what the future holds for you on any situation, you can find Summer at

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