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Suicide And The Afterlife

click here for a free psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comThe subject of suicide is not to be taken lightly, as there are so many misconceptions about it, and about what happens after. As a psychic medium, I worked more than my fair share of cases where a loved one committed suicide. To me, these are the most heartbreaking of tragedies. Many times there was no indication that a loved one was about to commit suicide. In other instances, it was expected.

In religious teachings suicide is often the number one act you don’t commit. According to some of these beliefs, those who take their own life will go to hell, or purgatory, or into the nothingness of space.

The first serious case presented to me was of a client who had been dating a certain gentleman for many years off and on. He also had another girlfriend, who would live with him off and on, between seeing my client. My client and he would proceed to have this dance of breaking up, and making up. During their breakups, he had this other woman living with him.

The woman living with him had a serious drug problem.  Eventually, the live-in girlfriend introduced him to buying and selling drugs. The on again, off again boyfriend started taking drugs and became an addict.

The last time my client spoke to him was the night he killed himself. He wanted to see her the next morning, to talk about getting back together. It was two hours later he went home, walked past the live-in girlfriend, and shot himself in his bedroom.

My client heard the news the following day. She called me devastated wondering how this could happen. I did my best to tune into his energy. He transitioned rather quickly, after he shot himself. My spirit guides though were shielding his energy from mine. This is where I learned what happens to those who kill themselves and cross over to the other side.

Did you really want to die? No one commits suicide because they want to die. Then why do they do it? Because they want to stop the pain ~ Tiffanie DeBartolo

Just like Dante’s books The Inferno, Purgatory and Paradisio, every one of those places have varying levels. For my client’s deceased boyfriend, he was going to have to work through different levels. The first level was his life review, which I saw he was there for about a year. He had to review his life in order to find out why he did this. Then as he moved through the levels moving up and up, I was able to see him and communicate him. He finally came through fully, three years after his death. Then I was able to tell my client why he did what he did.

I have to admit, during this process I learned a lot. I learned the Universe doesn’t ‘punish’ you as organized religions have led us to believe. Yes, it is a serious infraction according to my spirit guides, but the deceased loved one has to review as to why they did it. In my client’s case, once her boyfriend crossed over, he knew he had made a mistake. He saw his body laying there and wondered what he did to himself. He was very repentant and wished he had never did it.

He did show me that what happened that night was due to fear, hurt, and pent-up anger. He had a horrible argument with the live-in girlfriend, and he was about to kick her out. She said that if he didn’t like her living there, why didn’t he go and kill himself. Which he did.

After months of closure for my client, he came through apologizing for the incident. He should have never have done it. He was suffering from depression and addiction. He wasn’t in his right mind. He asked for her forgiveness.

When people kill themselves, they think they’re ending the pain, but all they’re doing is passing it on to those they leave behind ~ Jeannette Walls

I have learned that suicide is the not the ultimate sin, as I was raised to believe. In fact, it is something that no one in their right mind would do. I do not condone suicide, as those who are left behind, like my client, have so many unanswered questions, especially if there is no suicide note.

I have also learned of the Universe’s mercy, love and compassion after working with my client during our sessions. Sometimes, you just don’t know what is going on in the other person’s mind during such an incident. All you can rely on is the love and compassion from the other side. Spirit guides, angels, and beings of light helps our loved ones transition through such critical time.

About The Author: Angelic Amy

Amy's two near death experiences (NDE's) pushed her natal psychic abilities into overdrive and her story is featured in a famous psychic medium's new book! She's experienced a rich life full of more ups and downs than most encounter in a lifetime, which has only helped her connect to her clients on a deeper level. Tapping into her clairvoyant, clairaudient and Mediumship abilities, Amy is a prominent radio show host, has appeared on other radio shows, and is a popular Tarot reader at Psychic Fairs and parties. This native New Yorker is an experienced energy healer, a Reiki Master, and channels gentle Angelic energies through an Integrated Energy Therapy Technique. It's an honor for Amy to help you in your time of need. If that time is now, you can find this gifted psychic at

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