Invariably, week after week, I receive questions from clients about attracting what they desire. This can range from a love interest to steady employment, but the solution is the same for just about any scenario. There are four keys to manifestation: identification, visualization, expect-action, and gratitude.
This is the most important step in the process of manifestation, and it’s often either overlooked or misunderstood by the general population. In order to attract what you want, you must understand what creates what you want.
For example, if you wish to be in a loving and committed relationship, then you must see yourself as the faithful and loving partner you wish to attract. Affirm, “I am the perfect lover.”
What you radiate outward in your thoughts, feelings, mental pictures and words, you attract into your life ~ Catherine Ponder
Be sure to use “the perfect lover” and not “a perfect lover,” because keeping it singular in expression is essential to proper manifestation. In effect, you are affirming that you are one with the expression you seek to experience.
Next, once you’ve established an identity as the experience you’d like to see, visualize it. What makes it so great to be this version of yourself? How does it make you feel? What actions flow from this expression? What about it brings you joy and fills your heart with gratitude?
Allow yourself to get lost in the experience and enjoy every moment of it, because the more time you spend seeing it within yourself, the sooner it will manifest in your physical reality. As within, so without. Do this every morning after waking and every night before bed.
It is imperative that your actions align with who you’ve decided you are, otherwise this process will be either ineffective or only somewhat helpful. The perfect lover, for instance, is open to all experiences to love, and when an opportunity arises to go on a date or mingle with the singles, the perfect lover dives right in!
Now that you’ve identified yourself as the one who experiences whatever you’ve chosen to manifest and you’ve visualized and explored the implications, you are now in a state of poised expectancy.
Every single second is an opportunity to change your life, because in any moment you can change the way you feel ~ Rhonda Byrne
Be ready to act upon your identity, because if you are the one who experiences what you wish to manifest, then you will be excited and ready to take action at every moment. If you still shrink back timidly when someone asks you out, then you haven’t fully merged with the identity of ‘the perfect lover.’ Your actions will always reveal the truth about who you are, no matter what you say or think!
Finally, to complete the process, you must remain thankful for every experience. To continue with the analogy of ‘the perfect lover,’ if you go on a date and it’s not what you’re looking for, then give thanks anyway.
You see, even a mediocre date can reveal to you more of what you want, or don’t want. Of course, if you clearly identify what ‘the perfect lover’ looks like to you, then people who fulfill those characteristics will be drawn to you, and you to them, like a magnet!
As another example of the process, let’s say that you’re looking for a job — not just any job, but the perfect job. In this example we’ll pretend that the perfect job is working as a travel writer. The first step then is to affirm, “I am the travel writer!”
Then, list the qualities and traits that accompany this identity, “I am the travel writer, and my salary is $80,000/year. I travel to France, Denmark, Japan, Ecuador, and Hawaii regularly, and I am paid to stay at the most exquisite hotels and resorts. As the travel writer I enjoy a generous stipend for meals and tours, along with a high quality camera to photograph the beautiful experiences I share with my readers.” Go into as much detail as possible, and do whatever it takes to connect to this archetype you’ve created. Visualize it. Find images online if that helps. Feel the joy and excitement deep within your being.
To live your greatest life, you must first become a leader within yourself. Take charge of your life, begin attracting and manifesting all that you desire in life ~ Sonia Ricotti
After you’ve created a solid model for your desired experiences, begin browsing for jobs that match your creation. Apply to as many as you like, but do not compromise. If it’s only 60% of what you imagined, then it is not in alignment with your identity and you should keep moving along.
If you’ve been following this protocol for a couple of months with limited success, then reevaluate your desires. Be certain that you’ve asked for what you really want, and not just what seems realistic. Also, don’t try to obtain something that you don’t think is possible, because you never will.
When you come across the perfect opportunity you’ll know it, because you’ll see it and say to yourself, “That’s me!” After receiving what you manifested, be sure to give thanks and remain thankful through the entire experience. Keep in mind that it was you who asked for this, after all.
So, by following this process you can manifest your heart’s true desires, and you can stop wishing away your life and instead become the experience itself! This is the real magic of life, and anyone who truly desires to live life to the fullest can have whatever they believe themselves to be.
To truly live is to realize oneself within the expansive and unfolding abundance of life. Hold a dream in your heart and like a seed that’s nurtured with love, it will blossom into the beauty you are…and always have been.
| PsychicAccess.com.David receives messages from Spirit in a language he can convey clearly to others. His abilities as a Clairvoyant, Medium and Astrologer provide a complete blueprint of understanding for those he counsels. He is a member of both the San Diego Astrological Society and the National Council for Geocosmic Research and is often invited to speak to large groups. He has enjoyed a successful, steady practice, working from two offices in Southern California, where he helps clients to navigate the pitfalls of their past and even explore their past lives through the knowledge he has gained in hypnotherapy. He can connect grieving survivors with loved ones beyond the veil, and is regularly lecturing, teaching and sharing the power and accuracy of astrology with his students to advance their own spiritual development. In the last twenty years, he’s mastered the subtleties of energy and has witnessed, on a weekly basis, the transformation taking place in the lives of his clients. If you’d like to receive detailed answers from a true Piscean mystic, born to swim in the psychic depths of understanding, you can find David at |
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