Why some psychic readings don’t come to fruition is a common question, and a good one. Firstly, there is common sense. Not all clairvoyants, mediums, and energy workers are necessarily the best at what they do. People have told me that all psychics are frauds, based on just one experience. Well, in that case one could claim that all car mechanics, hairstylists, lawyers, dentists, and doctors are also frauds, as most of us have had at least one bad experience with a person in one of those professions. Similarly, not all spiritual or psychic professionals are equally excellent at the work they do.
When getting a reading there are also many other factors to consider. Free will is an important consideration. Readings offer information on the best potential for the approaching future. But then there is what the person chooses to do. It is like receiving information on diet and exercise – how many people actually take that information to heart and follow it? Few do, especially if it is ‘inconvenient’ or takes any kind of special effort. These days we live in the effortless-but-I-want-results-right-now era.
Tomorrow is the only day in the year that appeals to a lazy man ~ Jimmy Lyons
For example, if you tell someone who is concerned about finances that he can have much financial success in real estate, that person can decide that they really hate many or most aspects of the real estate business and not proceed to explore available positions for a future in real estate. Obviously, this reading does not ‘come true.’ But what does happen is that the person instead learns that finances do not trump the desire for feeling good at a job.
However, if a clairvoyant were to explain this process instead of immediately giving the answer to the question, the person will be frustrated, or angry, and might even denounce the reader’s ability to predict the future. Until the circumstances around money unfold, until the learning happens, the person is convinced that he wants more money in life and is certain he can do real estate, and the reader will not be able to convince the person otherwise.
You cannot tell a person a truth they cannot comprehend, such as “You will make more money, but you will hate it.” The lesson must be learned through experience.
Having a teacher that is clairvoyant, who focuses on the process and priority of soul evolution, and who does not succumb to the pressure of outcome-based questions, will take you down a path of learning, rather than give you a simplistic psychic answers that will ultimately prove disappointing.
Someone who is only outcome-based when they request a reading, can only tolerate a limited outlook and a limited amount of information during the reading, because she ‘wants’ something. This kind of person will often find fault with a reading, unless she gets what she wants. This is a very common occurrence on psychic hotlines. People will call several different psychics, over and over, until they get the answer they want to hear. Psychic readers who do not have a strong core or who lack experience, then succumb to the pressure of such a person’s overwhelming neediness.
Some people will pay for numerous readings of all kinds, until they hear the easy answers they are seeking to hear, rather than doing some of the work themselves. This is how scam psychics make a lot of easy money – by simply telling people their heart’s and ego’s desire, rather than taking them to a place of learning and soul evolution as a priority. Needless to say, I am not a millionaire.
A man sooner or later discovers that he is the master-gardener of his soul, the director of his life ~ James Allen
Readings often also don’t work out when advice given as to what behaviors or practices must change, in order for a particular future to manifest in that person’s web, is ignored. In this case the person does not make any of the suggested changes, but instead continues the same unworkable behaviors hoping that magically she will still get want she wants. It is sort of like wanting to know how much weight one is going to lose, and by when, without making a single change in diet or exercise.
This desire to get an outcome with no effort is prevalent in our culture, as can be seen in the billion dollar weight loss industry that successfully sells diet programs and exercise machines that promise weight loss with little to no effort. How many overweight people do you know who have tried every diet and own every machine? People who want outcomes with no effort seek to get psychic readings to hear those promises, just like some try and fail with each diet or exercise machine. These people blame the diet or the machine for lack of results or false advertising, and people who display this pattern with psychic readings will also blame the reader when they don’t get what they want, without making any effort on their part.
A final factor to consider is that if one studies with a guru or true teacher, one’s path is both accelerated and protected. If a reader is dependent on a divination tool, such as Astrology or Numerology, she will not be able to account for the bending and adjustment of karma that one’s teacher can facilitate. Students with a true teacher have the opportunity to expand beyond the construct of their life chart and a reader who only uses ‘psychic tools’ without also having a strong ability to read soul records, will be inaccurate.
This kind of approach is rare in this era. Not many people commit to a teacher and few have an actual personal spiritual practice. The true teacher also has her own teacher, still meditates, and goes on personal retreats. But they are a minority. Many people I meet in this field tell me how ‘gifted’ they are, and how they do not need to meditate or practice their spirituality. They claim they only need to hear words and thoughts directly from Source.
Well, to be taught truly new material, there are no words, and at first no thoughts, because the information is so new there simply are no words, yet. Your atoms first have to be rearranged for you to be able to receive the new. This process can happen over time via life lessons, or accelerated through the process of silent meditation. And yes, there are some other practices of the mystery schools that can facilitate this. However, talking to your guides in the shower or having them tell you information, while valuable, can only transmit in the realm of what you already know, what you already have language for, and concepts that you can currently accept as okay, viable or real.
In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility ~ Eleanor Roosevelt
The truly new, transcendent material, when first presented, has no words. The Path of Light is manipulating matter, as light is part of the three dimensional Earth experience. Knowledge is matter. The Path of Sound is Enlightenment, Vibration. Many new agers call themselves lightworkers, and they are. They work with light, with matter and knowledge. Finding a teacher of Light and Sound is rare these days, and finding people who practice both Light and Sound almost an impossibility.
If you want a proper reading, make sure you want to hear the answer and are willing to either do the work, or accept the learning. Otherwise, you will find yourself doing readings for yourself, telling yourself your same old story, over and over, to calm yourself down or feed your ego. You will most likely only keep finding psychics that will do the same for you, confirming your limited I-want-this-right-now perceptions and ego desires.
How can you make sure you want to hear the answer, or that you are truly willing to learn? Adopt a spiritual practice where you sit in sacred silence, and surrender to the sound of Spirit. That sound is energy, not words.
| PsychicAccess.com.Nonna lives in Southern California, and is a professor of psychology and a teacher of psychic development, energy work and meditation, who has recently finished her PhD. She has been a counselor for both humans and animals for thirty years, removing energy blocks through her expertise in the spiritual arts. She also has numerous years of study and practice with classic psychological therapeutic models, family work, twelve-step processes, nutritional and body/mind/spirit healing, complementary, alternative, and quantum medicine. Nonna is brilliant at unearthing the gems in every client’s soul and polishing them to a fine finish. To release your own soul’s sparkle, contact Nonna at |
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