So many choices in life. Which is the right decision? As a psychic I get asked all the time, “Am I making the right choice?” Truth be told, there isn’t always a perfect answer for us to give you, and here’s why.
And no, it’s not just typical ‘free will’ explanation (although that also does come into play). No, brace yourself. The reason is so simple that it’s actually mind-blowing. The reality is… more often than not there is no right or wrong choice!
Yes, I know what you’re thinking: “Whoa, what is she talking about? There has to be a right choice. I know this, because I’ve made some bad choices before. And I know there are times I’ve definitely made the wrong choice. I don’t want to do something I’ll regret!”
Your life changes the moment you make a new, congruent, and committed decision ~ Anthony Robbins
Okay, I’ll give you that. Sometimes, we do choose to do something and later wish we had done something very different. However, a choice is simply that: a choice. It is an action if you will, where you pick between two or more possible options. And with each choice, or action, there are consequences.
Consequences aren’t always negative! Sometimes these consequences feel good to us. You feel happy, safe, filled with joy. And sometimes they feel bad, leaving you with emotional, financial or even physical pain or loss. Along with those choices (and consequences) comes lessons, and all lessons serve us in some manner. This is where the understanding of there being no right or wrong choice comes in.
Author Deepak Chopra explains choice like this: “If you obsess over whether you are making the right decision, you are basically assuming that the universe will reward you for one thing and punish you for another. The universe has no fixed agenda. Once you make any decision, it works around that decision. There is no right or wrong, only a series of possibilities that shift with each thought, feeling, and action that you experience.”
So again, I say, there really is no right or wrong choice. There are only decisions. And decisions lead us to possibilities… where we make another choice… and then another. This is what shapes our world.
For example, you like two guys, but you’re not sure which guy is better for you to have a relationship with. A is super sweet, but B is really attractive and has that ‘bad boy’ quality you tend to find so appealing. So, what happens if you decide to date A, instead of B. Well, he could turn out to be a wonderful guy, who allows you to experience love in all its glory. Or, maybe you find he’s a pessimistic, unsupportive and self-centered man. That choice might not leave you feeling warm and fuzzy, but it did teach you a lesson.
It doesn’t matter which side of the fence you get off on sometimes. What matters most is getting off the fence. You cannot make progress without making decisions ~ Jim Rohn
With both choices you will still learn and experience what you want and need in a relationship. You would just learn it from different angles; either from everything you want and need being there, or by the pure absence of it. Yes, maybe A showed you love the easy way, but B has taught you what you don’t want and won’t settle for in a relationship. If you can see the opportunity in that lesson it will also make you a more loving person to others. Sometimes we have to see and experience what we don’t want to be very clear on what we do want and fully deserve.
I know that’s all well and good, but how about we skip over those uncomfortable lessons? Why do we have to make choices that cause us pain? Why can’t it just always be simple and easy? That, my friend, is not always the path our souls have chosen for our lesson to arrive.
Yes, we choose these lessons, but there are a few simple tricks to avoiding those painful lessons whenever possible. First, look within at your feelings and look externally at the facts. Put yourself in a mindset that you only want to attract and experience choices that are beneficial, safe, good and enjoyable. You can manifest the people and experiences in your life with the right mindset!
And finally, speak with a spiritual advisor who, with the help of their guides and wisdom, can help you explore in a non-judgmental way, how the choices you make might play out. Once you have the insight into how it might play out, perhaps the bad boy B won’t look as attractive after all.
| PsychicAccess.com.Angie is an accomplished Medium, Intuitive and Empath, speaking with Angels, Spirit Guides and those who’ve crossed over. She’s situated in the New England area, and has been providing highly accurate readings for her clients for over twenty-five years, and is sought after for psychic parties and dinners. What makes her particularly fascinating is her unique talent with Art Mediumship, in which she combines drawings and messages. She’s trained with many mentors locally and internationally, and has connected with exactly the right teachers at just the right time. Angie is also a teacher, offering Spiritual Gift and Mediumship Development classes, and she is Certified in Akashic Records and Pranic Healing. If you’d like to be introduced to your best spiritual self, while receiving detailed answers from a gifted and compassionate Card Reader and Medium, you can find Angie at |
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