I have a friend, I’ve referred to him as “Mr Impossible,” “Mr Can’t Make up His Mind,” and a few other names that won’t be shared, but his real name is Mike. I started dating Mike when I was 27, which means I’ve known him for more than half my life.
We stopped dating when I remarried at 33, but we maintained the friendship, and dated briefly after my divorce. He is my best friend. He is the only person, besides my husband, I would call at 3am to bail me out of jail, if that was ever necessary.
His only marriage was messy, the divorce brutal and as a result he decided not to ever commit to anyone, ever again. In fact, last month he mentioned he was getting a little lonely, so he bought another Harley Davidson. He now owns three.
Our soulmates seldom appeal to our personality—our ego. That’s why they are called soulmates rather than egomates ~ Carolyn Miller
Mike and I are soulmates in the truest sense of the word. The connection we have was immediate, intense and absolute. We know when the other is in crisis, we talk over almost every issue, and if I am having a problem in my marriage, he tells me I’m being too hard on my husband. He says I am more enlightened and should act like it!
He has acknowledged that he is supposed to be with me, and has confided that if he were to marry again, it would have been to me, but he doesn’t want that kind of commitment. His decisions affected my destiny, and as long as he knows that, I’m okay with it.
One day I picked up the phone without thinking and started dialing his number, when it dawned on me that he was still at work. Twenty or thirty minutes later I did it again. Of course, I felt stupid for doing this and hung up.
But an hour later I did it again, and this time let the call go through and left a message on his machine: “I’m not sure what’s going on, but this call was the third time I’ve dialed your number, so call me.” Ten minutes later he returned my call and laughingly told me he had been laid off that morning.
We spend a lot of time talking and during some of these discussions we were able to identify previous lifetimes we shared. What brought it up in the first place is my irrational fear of fire.
In the 10th century we were one of the families who survived the perilous journey from Iceland to Greenland. Life was harder than we were used to. Greenland was not as green as we were led to believe and the summers were shorter, so we had to work harder. One night our house caught fire, we had two small children and I was pregnant, and we made it out with only our son. Our daughter didn’t make it.
People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life ~ Elizabeth Gilbert
During the Dark Ages, Mike was an alchemist, I was a midwife. There are several other people I’ve met in this lifetime that were in that lifetime. We all had memories that overlap, and since we all have discussed it, we don’t interact anymore.
So, the Dark Ages. People were very superstitious, everything was seen as an omen – good or bad. There was an outbreak of some kind of disease: diphtheria, cholera, small pox, or some very contagious disease. Our neighbors believed that either God was punishing the village, or a witch or warlock hexed the village. No matter which one it was, the witches and warlocks needed to be removed.
We were rounded up, tried and convicted of using witchcraft, and hanged. I’ve met seven of us so far. I believe there are eleven of us in total and I’m sure I will meet the rest of them eventually.
In the 16th century Mary, Queen of Scots, was imprisoned in the Tower of London. I was one of her ladies in waiting. Mike was one of the prison guards. Since we were in different social classes, we could never marry. So we had a love affair.
We are both fascinated with prehistoric things: dinosaurs, cave paintings, artifacts, documentaries. We are lucky to live in a state that has one of the largest dinosaur dig displays and museums in the country. We both believe that we have known each other for thousands of years, including being mates in Europe during the Cro-Magnon ages.
My definition of soulmate is someone who is in your life for a specific purpose. Ours is a true soulmate connection and we both know there will never be a lifetime when we will be without each other.
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