Soulmate Seeking For The Romantically Perplexed

Get a free psychic reading at PsychicAccess.comOf the many questions I get as a psychic reader, the majority deal with love, romance, sex, affairs – you name it. We’re all obsessed with matters of the heart, because whether we know it or not, we are trapped in the midst of the Cycle of Necessity.

What is this cycle? The Cycle of Necessity describes our journey towards our soulmate, our twin spirit, that part of our essential Self that was split into two according to the Law of Polarization. This law requires that we split from our soulmate. The Cycle of Necessity describes our required path towards a ‘sewing back up’ of the cosmic Siamese twins, as it were, a reunification with something ancient that was originally integrated into our eternal Self. The soulmate, in other words.

Soulmates tend to find each other during their respective pursuits of their soul missions. Creating a soulmate could be seen as a spiritual reward that we give ourselves, after pursuing many soul contracts rife with discord ~Linda Brady

How do you identify this soulmate? How will you know if a person actually is …drum roll, please…wait for it, wait for it….The One?

Astrology (the Golden Key and the Tarot (the Silver Key) each contain special wisdom of not only illuminating your unique path toward your soulmate, but are also capable of describing this person comprehensively. To the skilled astrologer or tarotist  there is hardly an aspect to anyone’s personality that cannot be known, if only the question be formulated appropriately and the interest aroused.

The Tarot describes our journey through the Cycle, and it illustrates the way-stations you will go through as you struggle toward your loved one. The Cycle will not be the same for everyone. But everyone  must go through it, from the most naive prom queen to the most hateful, bile-filled, octogenarian virgin. No one is exempt from the Cycle of Necessity, much the  same as no one is exempt from taxes or death. We feel pain whenever we couple with someone who is wrong and we feel pain when the person we suspect is our soulmate does not return our attention.

This reveals a problem with soulmates. Sometimes they  are stubborn. Sometimes they play hard to get. And sometimes they genuinely just don’t like you. It’s vital to remember that the soulmate also has his or her own Cycle of Necessity. One of the major obstacles on the path to finding your twin flame is your own personal blind spots – those attitudes and beliefs that were trusted totally as God-given laws, and those aspects of your own wisdom that you trust and ought not to. These and dozens, hundreds of other hurdles all seek to test you as you travel through the Cycle, testing you to gauge your fitness and readiness.

A soulmate is someone to whom we feel profoundly connected, as though the communicating and communing that take place between us were not the product of intentional efforts, but rather a divine grace ~ Thomas Moore

The primary aim of a Tarot reading or astrological  consultation, then, ought to be whether or not the client is properly oriented toward the Cycle of Necessity. The ideal client would be curious where he or she stands in relation to that Cycle. Asking whether or not X will call back and when only serves to treat the symptom, and not the underlying ‘illness’. The better question might be, “How does X fit into my Cycle of Necessity? Where is he at in his own Cycle?”

After you glean as much information as you can from the  Tarot reading or astrological chart, then comes the difficult part, the “un-fun” part: Work. Labor. And waiting. Toil and trouble. The celestial keys rarely recommend the easy path, and with good reason – the easy path yields unsatisfying results. Therefore, most often the consultation will highlight an area that’s  uncomfortable and traditionally avoided. Usually this is the trouble spot – what needs to be addressed before you can attract The One, your twin flame.

The reading’s advice ought to be fastidiously obeyed during the days, and weeks, and months afterward, and careful observation should be made of not only the significant events, but also the minutia, all those little details wherein the Universe communicates with us, the tiny  affirmations, the minuscule emphases. The cosmos speak with a softness that belies its terrific immensity, and it is not always easy to hear these messages. I promise that if you do the work, results will come in a time commensurate with your effort. Of course, one’s destiny or fate also weighs in on that.

Do some people have the unfortunate fate of living their entire span alone? Maybe their next life will continue the Cycle of Necessity in more dramatic fashion. I don’t believe that this is the case. There are different types of karma, and according to the philosophical systems which seek to explain the rules for this sort of thing, karma can skip lifetimes and mete itself out whenever appropriate. Therefore, one’s free will can impact that karma, push against it and overcome the karma’s inertia.

When love isn’t in our lives, it’s on the way. If you know that a special guest is coming at five o’clock, do you spend the day messing up the home? Of course not. You prepare. And that is what we should do for love ~ Marianne Williamson

So, the romantic miser, the perpetually forlorn… these people all choose how their fate manifests. If they were to thaw their hearts, if they were to undergo one of those lovely Grinch moments where the lumpen, desiccated booger that is the monster’s heart swells and becomes juicy with benevolence, then we all cheer for them and understand that the benefit they  could experience would be somehow superior to that which can be enjoyed by the rank and file.

Psychic Access employs many specialists in Tarot and Astrology, and many other reading methods, who can assist you in assessing where you’re at in the Cycle of Necessity. The next time you find yourself in a psychic reading with one of these esteemed professionals you will do well to forget about Tom, Dick or Harriet, or whomever the intended subject of your call was, and just ask where you’re at on your romantic path, and what you need to change in order to attract your soulmate.

The great news is that you definitely have a soulmate, and it is your spiritual obligation to find him or her. The powers of  Good in the universe have seen fit to split our souls and force us to struggle back toward unification, due to the power and wisdom this gives the soul. The spirit that’s been reunited with its soul mate is an awe-inspiring and much-needed source of light in a hostile, cold and dark universe. The reunited, restored and re-integrated soul is a powerhouse for doing the work of the forces of Good.

About The Author: Incorporating many psychic disciplines into one unique formula, Stephen's Tarot readings reveal the true Self from every metaphysical angle! An autodidact, he has the ability to solve complex problems and uses this talent along with his highly developed psychic gifts to provide you with answers that have previously gone unsolved in your life! If you'd like Stephen to uncover your future, this North Carolinian treasure can be found at

One Response to “Soulmate Seeking For The Romantically Perplexed”

  • Dianne:

    Hello Stephen,

    I had the pleasure of having you do a reading for me which I really appreciated and very much enjoyed. I have been brought up in a Christian religion where we are discouraged from seeking out any form of Clairvoyant, etc. etc. Recently I have come a place where I have been so desperate where I just “needed to know” something because I was tired of being in the dark. I needed to know if there was some light at the end of a tunnel.

    Through Psychic Access, I have found a few Psychics (yourself included) who have all confirmed my career path and my relationship with a particular “man” and as I understand it, if two or more confirm the same thing, there is great potential there.

    However, when it comes to future predictions I have read from a certain site that even though a psychic may predict a love interest or a certain event in your future, we still have a choice that could negate the outcome. This I have no problem with as I agree. However the site went on to say that even if we didn’t do anything to negate the outcome, still the person that is predicted for us also has free will and could change or negate the outcome of the psychic prediction.

    For example: Several psychics have seen a connection for me and a ‘man’ that has been in my thoughts and all have predicted that probably in a year a reconnection would be made. The site in question says that even if I didn’t do anything to negate this outcome, the man in question who also has free will could do something to negate this outcome before it happens thus nullify the prediction.

    I’m wondering if this is the case, what is the purpose of seeing a psychic? I get wonderful information from a psychic that says I will be reconnected with a former love, but this is only a snapshot in time and it might not even happen because his free will could change even though I was told otherwise.

    What are you thoughts on this. Feel free to email me if you like. I would love to hear from you on this.


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