There’s such a strong connection; I want to know how he feels about me?
Why is it that every time we get close, he pulls away and he won’t give me a commitment?
When will I hear from her again? I just know we’re so connected.
These are some of the typical questions I am often asked in psychic readings. But to me the obvious question should be: if you’re calling a psychic wondering what your love is thinking, feeling, or doing then how ‘connected’ can you really be?” Connection, by definition means: “joined; to show or think of as related”. So often, when we are consumed with the thoughts of another, we forget that there are other natural processes at work, like hormones, for example. Lust is pretty powerful stuff! If we don’t allow ourselves to become completely submerged in the intoxication, we can easily mistake it for love or connection – especially if they’re involved with someone else.
Sometimes no matter how many eyelashes or dandelion seeds you blow, no matter how much of your heart you tear out and slap on your sleeve, it just ain’t gonna happen ~ Melissa Jensen
Love is beautiful! Love is everything! It is something to die for, a reason to live, and it’s designed to make you stupid. That’s its job. Because, in this blissful state of ‘dumb’, we are able to join with another without bias, prejudice, or doubt.
So, when there is doubt or insecurity in this ‘connection’, the problem may not have anything to do with you or your love, but could simply be a misunderstanding of your own feelings.
Ideally, lust and love would be synonymous, but unfortunately, that’s not always the case. Then again, sometimes infatuation can disguise itself as either.
True connection between two parties goes both ways and there is no doubt between you. Being with the other is as easy as breathing. It may not always be exciting, but it always feels comfortable. With this person, you are respected. You are cared about, you are valued, and you are trusted.
In a genuine state of love, the other person tries to make you happy, just as you would try for them. But if you are in doubt or asking these questions about your connection, then you’re not happy. Whether it be insecurity, frustration, or confusion, there’s obviously something ‘broken’. Poor communication is usually the culprit, but understanding yourself is the key.
So, before you ask if there’s something wrong with your connection, you may want to ask if you’re truly connected to begin with.
About The Author: Augra is a Master Tarot Reader, living in Texas, and is a member of The Tarot Professionals Group. She's provided divination services to other Tarot readers, and has instructed many who have gone on to become talented professionals themselves. She is also an expert in many areas of parapsychology, including: dream interpretation, past life regression and khundalini. Her clairvoyant and empathic skills are powerful, especially when combined with her expert use of Tarot and numerology. For a detailed reading from this sensitive and compassionate reader, go to PsychicAccess.com.
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